i had the great pleasure of being a friend of edward gorey's for about 25 years.
a few things to modify some of the observations offered here:
when he left NYC he lived for a time in barnstable, mass. in a family house and ended up living in yarmouthport, mass. where he died in 2000.
his house there is now the edward gorey house, as a museum. here's the website:
http://www.edwardgoreyhouse.org/his classic ballet work, THE GILDED BAT, followed his classic opera work: THE BLUE ASPIC.
THE LAVENDAR LEOTARD - the color was in great homage/honor of a favored color of karinska's. this work began life as a series of illustrations in a NYCB playbill called 'ballet-hoo' (there was a special slip-case edition of this 'leotard' book with the slip-case specially lined in a severe rust color specifically chosen to clash, karinska-like, w/ the lavendars. alas among all my gorey items i don't have a copy of this special edition.)
until the early 80s he did much work, for no fees, for the new york city ballet guild gift bar under the guidance of the late rosalie lewis.
he actually only attended, ALL performances of THE NUTCRACKER one particular year, all told 30-some shows. i attended many that season too, at his 'inspiration,' but by no means all. i think i clocked some 17 or so that year.
for years he bought every subscription available at NYCB and then filled in the non-sub perfs. as necessary. toward the end of his stay in NYC to be sure he missed the odd perf. here or there but had many a year when he missed none.
he did an illustration for DANCEMAGAZINE of himself and some of his friends on the n.y.state promenade - i see no reason to call any of his friends acolytes; he was a fine friend, as many of us knew, and he would not have suffered such 'followers,' he could shy away from anyone who wanted to 'hang around' him without hesitation.
as arlene croce said in the loving tribute she published about him in BALLET REVIEW, and i'll have to paraphrase for now, as i don't have the essay to hand: she made a point of noting that she never considered him to be a 'camp' figure - as some wanted to call him - rather, a.c. wrote something like ' the edward gorey i knew was a very cultured and intelligent man.'
anyone who was lucky enough to make spend time with him knows the truth of a.c's astute comment.