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A standing ovation seems almost de rieueur at concerts, etc., these days, no matter the caliber of the performance.
Is it considered rude to sit and applaud when others are giving a standing ovation? Or is this a time to "go with the flow" even if I disagree with the other audience members?
Is it considered rude to sit and applaud when others are giving a standing ovation? Or is this a time to "go with the flow" even if I disagree with the other audience members?
I've experienced this kind of inner conflict before, too. I know that we've had variations on this topic before, but ... What kind of answer would you give the reader? Any interesting expeiences along this line?
It would be great to hear from dancers and former dancers as well as fans and the occasional captive guest.
For the record, here's Miss Manners' answer:
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Much as she hates to discourage kindness, Miss Manners feels obliged to report that the purpose of curtain calls is to garner audience reaction, not to recieve thanks.
Naturally, the performers hope that the reaction will be praise, if not adulation, in the form of applause, ovations and roses tossed at their feet. But they must take their chances. And they should realize that when ovations are routine and automatic they are meaningless. If you think the performance good but not extraordinary, it is not rulde to remain seated while clapping.
Naturally, the performers hope that the reaction will be praise, if not adulation, in the form of applause, ovations and roses tossed at their feet. But they must take their chances. And they should realize that when ovations are routine and automatic they are meaningless. If you think the performance good but not extraordinary, it is not rulde to remain seated while clapping.
Another question: if you agree with Miss Manners (as I do), do you have the guts actually to do it (as I don't)?
